ELLDER (Carmen Elle & Ben Kunder) Invite Listeners to Heal and Grow on Debut Single, “Don’t Carry Things That Weigh You Down”

ELLDER, the collaborative project of singer-songwriters Carmen Elle and Ben Kunder, debuts with their powerful single “Don’t Carry Things That Weigh You Down.” A raw and evocative exploration of healing, growth, and transformation, the song is a poignant reflection of the duo’s unique ability to translate personal experiences into universal emotions.

Born from a period of deep introspection, “Don’t Carry Things That Weigh You Down” captures the process of letting go and finding hope. The song began with Ben’s quiet moments at the piano, coping with the trauma of nearly losing a loved one and revisiting the weight of past relationships.

That first verse was my way of coping for months. It wasn’t until my first songwriting session with Carmen that the song truly came to life. They immediately connected with the sentiment, and together we finished it in minutes. This song reflects our shared journey of healing and our deep connection as collaborators. – Ben Kunder

This debut marks an exciting new chapter for ELLDER, whose collaboration began serendipitously and quickly solidified into a partnership centered on therapeutic storytelling. After its initial version was featured in the Peabody Award-winning series Sort Of on CBC Gem and HBO Max – earning a Canadian Screen Award nomination and winning a CASMA Award for Best Original Song – the duo decided to reimagine the track in their own production style.

Stripped down and intentionally minimal, this version of “Don’t Carry Things That Weigh You Down” keeps the focus on Carmen and Ben’s voices and the song’s lyrical depth. The result is an evocative journey through hope, bloom, and evolution.